Do's and Don't

I have been good to this world for a long period of time and all along this time people made a habit of not even considering the feeling and the pain i am going through.It is about time that i tell them that i also get hurt, i also feel my wound i am of the same kind as you are.So i decided to write some do's and don't of mine which if not make things simple atleast makes clear in there head....................

DO's and DON't

1. I can't stand artificial people ,either be good or don't be good just be original
2. I do not like people interfering in my personal life until and unless they are told to do so
3. I can't hear anything against my loved ones or friends,atleast not infront of me
4. I can't stand disrespect to females so think twice before saying something or even doing something
5. I don't like people giving me orders
6. I can't stand people who judge others on there looks or facial appearances
7. I hate people who stand against there parents decisions and try to dishonor them
8. I don't like people who don't believe in god i feel seriously something is wrong with them
9. i feel not being interactive is a sign of weakness so i don't like that too
10.I may be wrong on this one but i don't like people praising my enemy in front of me that automatically  makes them my enemy


So now it's your decision if you want to make me your friend i would be the most loyal friend ever and if you want to make me your enemy i will be the most deadly one too.................

Priority

What do we think when we hear the word priority? Do we think of the pending work we have to do or do we think of an equipment we have to buy or we think of our family and our duties towards them or is it a person we like and we wish to make them a priority in our life.These are some thoughts with which we make our priority straight.It is obvious that the priority we keep depends on our nature and our liking ,say we have a glass bottle of cola and we wish to open the seal by removing it's cap,now here where priority kicks in.If i would have been there i would first search for the bottle opener before i even try opening the bottle whereas some would not even care to find the bottle opener and would do it just by using there bare teeth.Now i know this was a very silly example but it would make us more clear on the fact that how we prioritize things on the basis of natural habits.Now let us take our self to the work aspect of prioritization,say we are in office and i expect that each and everyone who works there has some or the other work to do ,now how do we prioritize work. Say if i am working in an office and i have a boss even worst two bosses and i have been alloted work from both of them differently have to submit both the works at same time.And also imagine that one boss is female good looking and you tend to get attracted to her and the other is an old man with no hair on head always angry on you type boss.Now being at my place what would your instinct say at that point of time.I wouldn't think even once before putting my priority straight.These are something we humans tend to do which makes us more degraded but what can we do it is human instinct.Till now we discussed about work and habits prior to that ,now let me take us to a more debatable aspect of prioritization,friends.Friendship may be a very nice word to hear but do we give each and every friend of our equal priority,think about it.A very good example to this would be sms.Now since we have a deadline of 100 messages a day do we spend all our messages equally.Or lets not go there say when we are in college do we spend time talking to all our friends equally or do we stick to one person most of the times .I am not saying that prioritization is bad among friends i am just enlightening the fact.

In all this we don't think of things which should be given priority over other likes of ours.Say breathing or oxygen is a must and should for any human life to sustain but we don't give priority to that as we take it for granted.And by this i mean to say that priority is a very relative term and there is nothing bad in keeping priority it's just that we shouldn't prioritize on the basis of limited knowledge and social ajar and try understanding the whole aspect of priority before we get deprioritized in the world.............

Man vs Machine

 Yesturday i went to a store not only just a store an Electronic store just because my cousin had to replace his mobile phone with a new and in his word a lot more trendy and eye catchy mobile phone.And there i wondered what is it that make us hungery for a such a thing which has no life which is created by us and whose work was to support our needs and in return it made us handicapped. We now find our self's in the well of electronic impairment.I could see us turning us into such a specie that right now is very difficult to imagine.What it may result in that no one knows but the distinctive pattern of what we see now is a very intrusive fact to look upon.

By using gadgets and devices we are letting our self take us back to the time from where we came, by this i mean we are letting humans go back from where we originated. The pattern which i saw in the recent times and would like to enlighten upon you guys is that our extensive use of gadgets and devices has caused major environment degradation which is a known fact and there are people who are concerned about it and trying to curtail it. But just by cleaning the water ,not killing the animals ,prohibiting of cutting trees etc won't make much difference if we let multinational car company keep coming up with those oil consuming gas emitting vehicles. And being proudly one of the co-operate sell out we indulge in buying it. Why doesn't at that point of time it comes to our mind that if we do so we put our future in jeopardy. What would we do if we are without the ozone i don't find much of our future left. Now let me take you even more further on the creation of mankind ,The nuclear bomb.Once some great person had said that if we fight a third world war then we have to fight the fourth on sticks and stones. Knowing this how can we say that we are working on building our future or are we working on destroying it. I remember when India first tested there nuclear bomb in the year 1998 all news channel glorified it as a day of advancement .I for one was in grief that we are also now a part of it .Nuclear energy was something we could build upon not to build weapons.

God has also started giving us indication of our adaptability towards the reverse of the way we are heading. If we noticed that the devices which we used earlier were big in size and we further wanted evolution of smaller in size ones say like mobile or computer etc for that matter.Now we are looking towards bigger in size and so called better devices like ipad or tablets etc hence i would say that we are heading back............ 

Gym etc

Once Homer Simpson went to a street he saw and said 
                                         GYME? What's a GYME? (Sees Gym) Oohh, a gyme!
This is exactly what i felt going inside a gym first time it looked like another planet not even in milky way where you look around and you find only aliens with weird structure and weird dialect.One of them came to me as he was the supreme commander of his own race asked me whether he could help me out.I for one thought of myself as a representative to my fellow humans but then suddenly i gathered that i was talking to one and also a gym instructor of the gym too,though i have to admit that i was eclipsed by his huge muscles that made me think else wise.i have not seen someone so huge and bulky in my whole life.
After that we had the following conversation


Gi-gym instructor


Gi: how can i help you?(with a loud and strong voice)


me: (staring at him)


Gi: Sir?(a little more firm)


me: don't hit me


Gi: Why would i(gently)


me: okay!!!!then tell me how do i become like you?(genuinely)


Gi: You mean to say you want to join the gym...


me: yes!!!!


Gi: fill this form and pay ************ amount and you are in


me: okay!!!(still scared inside)


(paper work done)


Gi: congrats sir you are know a member of ************* gym


me: Thanks (and left gym)


me:(again went back)So does that mean you won't hit me!!!!


this is how my encounter with aliens happens now i have to meet them daily for an hour i hope this experience will be exciting and fruitful as well........

Humour

Humor also known as comedy, amusement, buffoonery, wittiness, comicality, flippancy are nothing but act of drollery.We of fen see our self getting indulged in it without knowing the fact that why it originated and what reason it still exist.Humor in technical terms is defined as a tendency of particular cognitive experiences to provoke laughter and provide amusement.This term was derived from ancient Greek where humor meant was Body fluids which controls the human health and emotions.Whatever our lifespan till now would have been we have been able to experience humor on majority of occasion.Now say for instance when we were kids we were only inclined towards cartoons and other humor related to it or lets go even backwards when we were new born our parents and the people around us always tried to make us laugh by making ugly faces or any other act of mindlessness just to make it simpler for them.So since the beginning of our life we have witnessed humor and it gives us a great evidence of how important is humor as an entity to us.

Many prefer humor as a source of getting away from what they have done and what has made them anxious ,many use humor to find a relief from what they fear and many keep humor as an example of there defensive mechanism.Of fen humor is made resulting into agonizing and depriving a person from the other who may have enjoyed it.Therefore humor may turn into something which you don't imagine.We have to keep humor to a restricted and apprehensive aspect before it could damage a lot.I of fen indulge myself into humor thinking of that may be i could give others something to cheer about in the world of agony and sorrow.I feel that everyone is blessed with good sense of humor but it's just that many don't imply humor in there life or they never find humor as a source of productiveness and there are people who of fen hesitate to crack a joke as they fear takes a better of them.

I feel that making people smile is one of the duties that god has bestowed upon us and only humor could cover the sorrow beneath you for not to be remarked upon............  

Mars Vs Venus

It has always remained a known fact that men's are from Mars and women's are from Venus and they always proved to live up to this hypothesis.I thought of writing about such a controversial topic as right now i am sitting in front of a TV set with my mom and dad fighting over a remote.My dad being a man wants to watch a show which will make him gain something in life like BBC(which at sometimes is very boring) and my mom being a women wants to watch something which will make her more befuddled and confused in her life like some serial coming on Sony(Don't know what it is called it comes around 10 and has created nonsense in my house since years).Before i go any further i would like to take an oath that what ever i will say from now will be unbiased and will be quoted with full knowledge and experience.

Some how or the other the frequency of a men and a women have never aligned itself at the intellectual level or at the emotional even if they are perfect couples and meant for each other sorts.There has always been something which have made them fight for.Men's have a very distinctive taste within there own restriction what i meant to say is that all men's have different taste and liking but there liking are restricted to a particular set of things and they could never ever think of liking something beyond it.Now say for instance a man likes a car he will go for colors like blue, black, grey etc but he would never think of something like pink because that doesn't come under his set of options.A women on the other hand have a very limited amount of options they like something which is very common among it's fellow's.Hence they have a very good quality of making girl's as a friend unlike men's as a friend who are always very selective about it.Though i have to say that there are exceptions in both but i am talking about masses.The word self respect has different meaning in both men as well as it's counter part and both take it very seriously and of course there are exceptions too.Men like self respect to be kept as honesty ,bravery ,man-hood ,ego etc on the other hand women term's it as honor, pride, trust ,faith etc.People in the world may think that women are more emotional but i will go ahead and contradict that men are the most emotional creature on this world it may be that females have more water to flow from there eyes then men but men have always been more sympathetic and weak in heart then women.I for one have always said and will say that we men should always be scared of them and treat them no less as they can do thinks better then us.

This can't also be denied that men have always loved there PARTICULAR counter part and they have also got the same from them too.And it is also true that for few men the word particular doesn't have any meaning because of which it makes the name of men go down.It has always been god's blessing and magic that two of us have lived on this world with as much as love and compasion needed and i hope it carries on............        

A City to A Home

My father came to this city finding a better standard of living imagining himself grow like any other person in the world ,he may have succeeded but there were many more who didn't who had no option then to head back from where they came and start a life of compromise and restriction.There are people who come in search of a better education to get a better understanding of what the world is all about, there are also those who haven't heard the word of education and find them self working at a very small level earning them self as much as to make them satisfy there needs for staying alive in a city like Delhi.And then there are people who didn't have to do much to survive in city and they were already very happy on what there ancestors had done to themselves.And i found myself bouncing in that category .when i was in Delhi i never knew how difficult it was for my father to make himself a valued part of this city and how i always relished the fact that i never did anything to make myself what i was ,it was always my father with whose hard work and name i went and completed my education in one of the best schools in Delhi with whose earning i was able to get what ever i wanted. He did his part and he did it with full dedication and honesty.Now it is my turn ,I find myself in a city where i have to build a name within many.I have to make my father proud so that he can say that his son followed his footsteps and he became what he wanted to become.Unlike my father the city in which i find myself is Bangalore.It may be a very competitive city but i am sure it won't make me disappointed as i believe in it and the city believes in me.And a very strong fact which i feel is that a city gets its name by people not by it's lucrativeness.And i am in love with people of my city and also not forgetting the fact that i have to work hard to make dreams accomplished by always endering to my principles and my learning which my parents have given to me.Else i  have to comprise and go back and live a life of restriction which i never and ever wished for.......